Since the Driver was going to get fuel and associated matters, I asked him to please help me buy Ribena too (The initial plan was for me to buy it later in the evening when we go for a stroll).
He showed up with a "nylon bag" full of Ribena in pieces and I was shocked! I managed to say a decent "Thank you", though I had to ask if the cartons of Ribena had finished in the store. He said he didn't ask...Huh? I'm sure he has helped me carry millions of cartons of Ribena...The extra 250 Naira I wanted to use to buy The Punch and write a commentary has been in Ribena...
So, please take this update as today's commentary...Plus, fuel supply is now regular while the price SHOULD make us find cheaper energy sources. We should be buying vehicles that run on something other than PMS. We should find CHEAP alternatives, abeg.
We also need an update on our existing and "new" refineries. We need an update on the Petroleum Industry bill. I'll like NPA and NIMASA fees to be merged into ONE in that PPPRA pricing template.
Why are we paying #6 for Retailers, #3.36 for Transporters Allowance, #2.36 for Dealers, #6.20 for Bridging Fund (what is this Bridging Fund? Is it still relevant in a deregulated economy?). What is the Marine Transport Average for? Which Admin Charge again?
The Retail Price Band is 135-145 Naira. How much did you buy fuel yesterday? How easy was it to get the fuel?
By next week, I'll start a #CountDownToOneYearInOffice where we'll dispassionately assess each sector of the economy and tell ourselves a few home truths...
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Saturday, 14 May 2016
Monday, 9 May 2016
Demystifying Domestic Violence
Another Tuesday is here. It's time to talk about Non-Governmental Organizations.
I spent a significant part of yesterday monitoring the Shonde murder.
Many of us wonder why Ronke Bewaji Shonde did not walk away from the abusive environment she found herself in. I sincerely don't know why. Maybe it was the Stockholm Syndrome. Or maybe she was not financially independent. If we choose to believe Lekan's "side of the story", we'll remember that he used to give her 8000 Naira weekly to cook soup. Which financially empowered woman waits for such a stipend? Assuming it is true...
Some of the women in abusive relationships/marriages cannot leave because they have nowhere to go. Their parents have told them that they don't have a room anymore in their father/mother's house. Some of their pastors have told them that divorce (or even separation) from an abusive partner is a sin. They are supposed to Pray Until Something Happens (P.U.S.H). They are told that the abuse is a trial of their faith and if they can persevere, they will be victorious.
Some of us will laugh and say that the woman does not value her life. I don't disagree. However, until we've walked in their shoes. I have tagged three Amazons in this post. Each of them has walked in those shoes one way or the other. However, that's not where their stories end. They have survived and today, they are doing what they can to help others survive this scourge (amongst other causes).
Barrister Abiade Olawanle is the founder of the Human of Substance Empowerment Initiative (H.O.S.E.I).
Mrs Laila St. Matthew Daniels is the founder of ACTS Generation.
Mrs Olubunmi Ajai Layode is in charge of The Green Haven.
All three of them are doing their bit to help victims leave abusive environments, get proper counselling and become responsible members of the society again. They also reach out to abusers who are willing to accept that they have a problem and need help.
Please feel free to ask your questions and I believe they'll do justice to them. We'll also share how you can contribute positively to ending the scourge (after teaching men to be protectors/providers and women to be nurturers and helpmeets).
I spent a significant part of yesterday monitoring the Shonde murder.
Many of us wonder why Ronke Bewaji Shonde did not walk away from the abusive environment she found herself in. I sincerely don't know why. Maybe it was the Stockholm Syndrome. Or maybe she was not financially independent. If we choose to believe Lekan's "side of the story", we'll remember that he used to give her 8000 Naira weekly to cook soup. Which financially empowered woman waits for such a stipend? Assuming it is true...
Some of the women in abusive relationships/marriages cannot leave because they have nowhere to go. Their parents have told them that they don't have a room anymore in their father/mother's house. Some of their pastors have told them that divorce (or even separation) from an abusive partner is a sin. They are supposed to Pray Until Something Happens (P.U.S.H). They are told that the abuse is a trial of their faith and if they can persevere, they will be victorious.
Some of us will laugh and say that the woman does not value her life. I don't disagree. However, until we've walked in their shoes. I have tagged three Amazons in this post. Each of them has walked in those shoes one way or the other. However, that's not where their stories end. They have survived and today, they are doing what they can to help others survive this scourge (amongst other causes).
Barrister Abiade Olawanle is the founder of the Human of Substance Empowerment Initiative (H.O.S.E.I).
Mrs Laila St. Matthew Daniels is the founder of ACTS Generation.
Mrs Olubunmi Ajai Layode is in charge of The Green Haven.
All three of them are doing their bit to help victims leave abusive environments, get proper counselling and become responsible members of the society again. They also reach out to abusers who are willing to accept that they have a problem and need help.
Please feel free to ask your questions and I believe they'll do justice to them. We'll also share how you can contribute positively to ending the scourge (after teaching men to be protectors/providers and women to be nurturers and helpmeets).
Monday, 2 May 2016
NON GOVERNMENTAL ORGANIZATIONS
Good morning. How are you doing? This has been on my mind for a while so I just have to do it...I'll like to talk about Non Governmental Organizations
Let's start with a definition...
According to Wikipedia, "A non-governmental organization (NGO) is an organization that is neither a part of a government nor a conventional for-profit business. Usually set up by ordinary citizens, NGOs may be funded by governments, foundations, schools, businesses, or private people."
There are many NGOs in Nigeria that deal with different causes. Starting from today, I'll dedicate Tuesdays and Wednesdays to NGOs. Personally, I think it is more helpful to have 2 or 3 NGOs dedicated to one cause and the rest of us can support them...instead of everyone setting up NGOs that deal with the same cause(s). What do you think? Let's share honestly...
Please, if you are in charge of an NGO, tell us in the comments what your NGO is about and how we can contact your ORGANIZATION...Thanks
Tomorrow, we'll focus on one NGO and share about their achievements and challenges. While we wait for the government to do their part, each of us can adopt a cause and make a difference in our corner of the world.
Let's start with a definition...
According to Wikipedia, "A non-governmental organization (NGO) is an organization that is neither a part of a government nor a conventional for-profit business. Usually set up by ordinary citizens, NGOs may be funded by governments, foundations, schools, businesses, or private people."
There are many NGOs in Nigeria that deal with different causes. Starting from today, I'll dedicate Tuesdays and Wednesdays to NGOs. Personally, I think it is more helpful to have 2 or 3 NGOs dedicated to one cause and the rest of us can support them...instead of everyone setting up NGOs that deal with the same cause(s). What do you think? Let's share honestly...
Please, if you are in charge of an NGO, tell us in the comments what your NGO is about and how we can contact your ORGANIZATION...Thanks
Tomorrow, we'll focus on one NGO and share about their achievements and challenges. While we wait for the government to do their part, each of us can adopt a cause and make a difference in our corner of the world.
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